Monday, 18 March 2013

Forum Magazine

At the end of 2012, three of my friends Owen, Paul and (boyfriend) Joe decided that Cardiff was lacking a magazine unique to students. We have university run publications but nothing with advertisements or deals in and something created entirely by students. So 'Forum' was born.

For the fourth edition I was asked to write about my experience working for Embassy Summer last year over the summer break and I thought I would share it with you!



Embassy Summer

When the summer break from university comes around, all you can think about is the festivals you want to go to, travelling and general relaxation of the mind. Free from deadlines, dissertations and exams. The problem that usually rears its ugly head is the pure fact that you are absolutely skint, with a maxed out overdraft. Finding a job for the summer is hard work, so around this time last year I thought to myself what on earth am I going to do? After surfing the Internet, I came across a company called ‘Embassy Summer’, an organisation that sets up English teaching summer camps in four different countries! They have 34 centres in 20 cities worldwide so the choice of where to apply for was vast. The concept of ‘Embassy Summer’ is that a group of foreign students travel to one of these centres and have half a day of formal English teaching and the rest of day of activities. ‘Embassy Summer’ bases itself in universities across these countries so there is always a ‘campus feel’ to it. I was based in Bristol at UWE and although I commuted from home, you have the option to stay on campus which most of the employees did. Which means you can apply for anywhere you fancy! Great for if you’re not keen on moving back in with the parents and losing that beautiful freedom. There are lots of job roles you can apply for within the camp: if you’re doing a teaching degree or have a TEFL qualification you could apply for a teaching role, or there are management opportunities as well. The role that I was lucky enough to obtain was as an ‘Activity Leader’, and this is the role I would one hundred percent recommend! The job means that you do 42 hours a week and you lead the activities that the young people take part in, for example: football, rugby, badminton, netball, rounders, arts and crafts and many more. The evening consists of optional activities including: discos, film screenings, arts and crafts and my favourite- karaoke. Also on a Tuesday and a Thursday you will do half-day trips, I was based in Bristol, so a half-day trip consisted of trips to Cheddar Gorge or Bath. Then on a Saturday you lead a full day trip, which could be Cardiff, London, Oxford and many other cities. I was often sent here to Cardiff as I was considered ‘a local’, which was great as I actually saw inside the Castle for the first time in my three years of living here! The young people are lovely, and so eager to learn. Not like British young people at all! The countries that they came from ranged from China, France, Italy, Spain and Poland. Another perk of the job was that most of the other activity leaders are students too! You get to meet like-minded people that are up for a laugh and make the experience even more worthwhile, cheeky drinks at the on campus bar happened very frequently when the students were tucked up! The pay is £235 per week for 18-20 year olds and £291.36 for over 21. There is a deduction of £30 per week is made for accommodation and food for the residential staff.

Overall my experience of Embassy Summer was unforgettable, I earned a decent amount of money, explored parts of the UK that I never had, made some great mates and got a brilliant notch on my CV. If you haven’t thought about what you’re doing this summer, why not go for it?

General Thoughts

I have been neglecting my blog for the past week or so, due to university deadlines and busy-ness but mainly due to lack of inspiration. I've felt rather flat and boring. But, it's monday now so it's time to think fresh. To kickstart my day I even had a fresh juice! (2 carrots, 3 apples and 2 sticks of celery)- very refreshing indeed.

I wanted to share a few things that i've discovered and been up too!

London: This week I travelled to London to find out more about my masters course for next year (Digital Sociology at Goldsmiths). Being in a different university to the one I know so well felt rather weird. I felt like everybody knew I wasn't a student there (yet!), but of course that's just be being massively self conscious and paranoid! It's great because my younger cousin George is an undergraduate at Goldsmiths so he showed me the ropes, sometimes when you're in a new place, it's nice to have a comforting face :). I sat in a lecture conducted by Warren Sack from America, who discussed his ideas about language, image and numbers. Lots of it went over my head, but I actually did understand some of it (yey- my degree is useful!) and this made me incredibly excited for the future! I also met Noortje Marres, who is the convener for my course. She immediately made me comfortable and was very encouraging about my thoughts and ideas surrounding the subject. I literally can't wait to start now!

I'll be honest, I used to hate London its just SO BIG. I used to feel like such a small fish in a massive ocean, and just couldn't get my head around why anyone would ever want to live there. But over the past couple of years, my opinion has changed. The amount of diversity there is in London is amazing, you are able to be whoever you want to be with absolutely no judgements at all. I feel like London is going to open my mind and I feel very positive about it indeed!

New apps: My mum visited me this weekend and told me about a new app that she had downloaded called 'mappiness'. Its actually really rather sweet. Its a research study that's being conducted by LSE (London School of Economics) and it sends you about 4 notifications a day to ask you questions about how happy you're feeling at that particular time. At the end of the week/month (depending on how long you decide to use it) it will tell you where you're most happiest and who you're the most happiest with. Cute huh? The other new app that i've acquire is very silly- Its the monsters inc app which my housemate insisted that I bought, and admittedly it is rather fun!

Fear: To say that i am nervous about my dissertation, essays and final is the biggest understatement going. Petrified is probably a better word. Can someone please please tell me WHERE THE TIME GOES? How am I in the 8th week of my second semester? How is it easter next week? Why do I only have a month to finish (and start!) writing my dissertation? How am I leaving uni in June? How am I graduating in July? Oh my... Answers? Anyone?

Positivity: After feeling pretty flat for a few days, i've been reading a lot of positive blogs and quotes to get myself back to feeling normal. My friends and family have also been lovely :) So when you're feeling low- talk, a problem shared is a problem halved remember! Even if you can't think of someone you know that will understand, chances are there's someone on this lovely online community that has felt similar! Whats the point in wasting any time sad eh!

There's definitely more that i've been up to and have been thinking about.. but we'd be here for days if I carried on.. plus.. those essay's won't do them selves!

Sunday, 10 March 2013

Mothers Day

I feel that a post in necessary to dedicate to my lovely Mum. 

Thank you for being my mum <3

Love you very much. x


University Elections


If you are at University you may well know what i'm talking about. There's basically a few posts that are up for grabs, for example; President, Athletic Union President, Welfare Officer and Media and Marketing Officer. 

In theory its a great cause, we as students, get to choose who runs our student union. We can relate to these people, they like us, have been students. The problem is ... their campaigns. Oh my. They are definitely in my top 5 most annoying things of all time. The candidates are given a certain amount of money (i think £40) to spend on their campaign. The money goes on outfits, flyers and banners and disqualification can occur if it is suspected that you have breached this as it causes unfair advantage.

Our main library is just off a central crossroad, and all the campaigners gather around the cross roads dressed up in outfits that 'relate' to their campaign and constantly pester you with leaflets and shout in your face.. 'make sure you vote for me'. Basically whoever wins, knows they've just bagged a cushty job for £18-£23k for the year. So, of course they are RELENTLESS. My facebook news feed was clogged up, every group that i'm a member of was full of 'manifestos' (just weird videos to be honest) and the worst, the hassling IN THE LIBRARY. It's great that some of you can waste a week campaigning- but I HAVE A DISSERTATION to write. 

On the up side, I did investigate more thoroughly, deciding that I would not be voting for anyone who pestered me in the library and I would watch their videos to see if any of them related to the campaign and wasn't just people running and dancing around. Some of the videos were really interesting, explaining what it was they wanted to do for the university and how they were going to attempt to change the faults of the university. 

I do believe that of course, the roles that are given out are important for the uni and the students, and these people that we elect have genuine responsibilities to improve the current systems. Its just a shame that the whole thing turns into a popularity contest- who has the most friends that will post about you, who can get their face printed onto club flyers for free. I hope that in the future, these cheesy annoying campaigns could become slightly more - sophisticated. I mean we are leaving the Student Union in these peoples hands...

Friday, 8 March 2013

International Women's Day

Its International Women's Day today, women are taking to social media and taking over in a big way. Even Google have got involved...
(If you scrunch your eyes up you can see 'google'- quite clearly actually)

For International Women's Day we should rejoice to be women and appreciate what opportunities we have in comparison to the past, right? Well yeah in a way, but there's still a LONG way to go. It could also be argued that actually we're going backwards in some respects- page 3, the generation of pink- I could go on.

It seems that today is the only day that we, as women, are allowed to speak up and say what we really think and feel, and on monday all will return to normal. 

The UN theme for International Women's Day 2013 is "A promise is a promise: Time for action to end violence against women," while International Women's Day 2013 has declared the year's theme as The Gender Agenda: Gaining Momentum. I'm definitely not knocking the day, as I believe that it is important that oppression towards women is addressed, but what I think it really highlights is the lack of action that is taken by the 'big guns' i.e. press and government on an everyday basis. Food for thought?

The most inspirational women I know is my mum. She set up a media charity in a deprived area in Bristol, helping so many people - although sometimes it angers me that no appreciation is given- and is funny, strong and well.. my mum. She sent me a video link this morning which is here.. and I looked further and found her blog here.. I'm not going to talk too much about it as I recommend you watch and read... There are so many brave women and great organisations that strive to help women on a daily basis- maybe part of  International Women's Day could be about highlighting these people!

So what do you think? Am I just way too pessimistic? I don't mean to be...


Monday, 4 March 2013

Presentation over..

So, the presentation is over. I'm still unsure on how it went, we don't get our results for a few weeks.
But I do have some tips...

PREPARE
Practice until you're bored of your own voice. Its the only way that you can be sure that you've done the  best you can!

SLOW
Don't rush. I spoke at a million miles per hour as I was nervous that I wouldn't finish in time but.. I finished 5 minutes early (meaning I had 10 minutes of questions! argh). Slow and Calm...

CHILL
A little bit of nerves is good, you'd be weird if you weren't nervous, but it's important to chill out a bit. The audience will be able to tell if you're really really nervous!

I'm not an expert, I wouldn't dare claim to be! But these are just a few things that I thought might be useful to share!

Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Presenting Stress

So, i've been stressing out about doing my dissertation presentation, which contributes to 20% of my overall dissertation. We have to do a 15 minute presentation and then 5 minutes of question and answers. To say that i'm PETRIFIED is a complete understatement! Every single time I practice, I forget absolutely everything that i'm talking about, literally- I just want to burst into tears. How am I going to get over this? Picture everyone naked? I'm sure that will give me the giggles..

So for now.. I guess practice will make perfect? Right? RIGHT?

My next post will reveal all......